I’ve always been fascinated by the concept of chiaroscuro, or the contrast of shadow and light in a painting, drawing or photo.
Finding that striking balance of contrast makes the entire image POP, and it’s something I aspire to when editing my photos. It’s quite amazing how turning up the shadow tones can add so much drama and depth to an image or piece of art. This is the metaphor I keep coming back to for the Winter Solstice, the longest night of the year.
From a psychological and environmental perspective, the cold, dark weather, changing seasons and transition into the Gregorian new year create the perfect backdrop to integrate our shadow self and use it to make our whole life POP.
A perfectly nice (albeit plain and basic) photo of the beach
The introduction of shadow tones and contrast creates so much more interest, depth and WOW!
This long, dark night beckons us to get acquainted with the shadows we keep hidden away - getting to know them can add so much DEPTH to our lives. I liken this to a lesson taken from a quintessential Christmas movie, Home Alone. Little Kevin was terrified of his older, ‘spooky’ neighbor. He had never met him but had heard stories and rumors so every action the neighbor took was filtered through Kevin’s limited perspective of fear. Fate would have it that Kevin eventually had to face his fears and meet this neighbor, turns out he wasn’t that scary at all and the two developed a very rich and meaningful friendship. Think of your shadows as this neighbor – they’re only frightening and intimidating because you don’t yet know them!
Create a cozy, nurturing space for yourself – bring in blankets, bolsters, pillows, cushions and candles. Maybe you’d like to cleanse your space by burning a stick of pine, rosemary, palo santo, sage, cedar or mugwort. Light (or turn on) your candles. If working with crystals, arrange those around you and anoint yourself and your candles with ritual oil if desired. And as always, please take only what resonates with you, make these prompts your own however you are led.
WINTER SOLSTICE CHIAROSCURO JOURNAL QUESTIONS
Feel free to perform a cord cutting ceremony with one, a few, several or all of these pages. To do: tear out the page(s) you'd like to release and burn in a fireproof container thanking them for the lessons and opportunity for growth. If you don't want to work with fire, you can cut or rip these pages up to your heart's content.
This is my latest go-to blend - I also like to add cedar and vanilla for a warmer, more sensuous vibe
Suggested Winter Solstice Crystals:
From top L to R:
🌙 Selenite for cleansing & balancing
💔 Nuummite to identify and release ancestral patterns
🩸 Bloodstone for healing & purification
🧹 Black kyanite to sweep out stagnant energy
❄️ Snowflake obsidian to balance shadow and light
🔮 Larvikite to release what’s not longer needed
🖤 Black Tourmaline for protection
Labradorite to enhance intuition
🤍 Clear quartz for clarity
🧼 Jet for deep energetic cleaning
💭 Black Sardonyx to improve perception
🪵Petrified wood to assist transformation and alignment with highest self
As I wrote about in previous posts about the summer solstice and autumn equinox, I love ritual work because it serves as a tangible touchstone that connects me more deeply to myself, to Spirit and to nature. By acknowledging and working with nature’s rhythms, I find a stronger sense of peace, integration and comfort in each phase of the year as well as my life. Clearing this energy and making friends with your shadow in the coming days will bring more clarity to the experiences you'd like to call in for the New Year Sweetness Ritual!
I will be sending out a recorded Future Self New Year Meditation to everyone on my email list to help you track your highest self - make sure you join the list so you don't miss out on this very special offering! My intention is that it will help bring clarity so that you can align with your highest self and timeline and more easily channel that energy in present time.
Many Blessings, xx Andi
Love your journaling suggestions and comments on ceremony and ritual. Shadow work is daunting and difficult; I like that you are aligning it with the solstice which feels like an appropriate time to begin/continue/reflect on it.
Whether it’s love, good health, a solid relationship, serenity, freedom, a title, respect, or a certain number in the bank or on the scale - anything you chase will always be outside of you.
Apart from you.
A Perpetual Separation.
The energy of chasing by nature keeps you in pursuit and the desired "thing" running away from you. This creates more resistance & frustration and actually widens the gap between you and what you want.